It is unwise to attempt to protect loved ones from discords and inharmonies which, knowingly or unknowingly, they have brought and are bringing upon themselves. It is better to give up anxious concern, loose them, and let them live with some of their discords, because the overprotection which would keep them from the results of their own conduct is often the stumbling block which prevents them from awakening to the truth of being. Their very suffering may be the needling necessary to awaken them. Each one of us has to learn the lesson of “loose him, and let him go.” Loose your loved ones into Christ; loose them into God; and let the law of God govern.

Joel S Goldsmith
The Art of Spiritual Healing
The Relationship of Oneness