The Power of Forgiveness: Redefining Relationships

“What no eye has seen, nor ear heard,
nor the heart of man imagined,
what God has prepared for those who love him”— 1 Corinthians 2:9 ESV

Did you know that you set the goal for every relationship and situation? You have a choice in every moment. What to choose between? To see a situation through the eyes of the ego (for separation) or to dedicate it to the Holy Spirit (for forgiveness). What difference does it make? The purpose you choose for the relationship will determine your experience of it.

What is an Unholy Relationship? The ego’s version of a relationship is an “unholy” one. It’s built on a foundation of specialness, where one person uses another to fulfill their own perceived lack. This is a relationship based on shadows of the past, where we project our guilt, fear, and unresolved issues onto another person.

The holy relationship is lived through a series of holy instants. What is a holy instant? This is a moment of total surrender to the Holy Spirit’s purpose. It’s a brief but complete suspension of your own will and an invitation for your mind to be corrected.

What is ‘forgiveness’ in this vision? Forgiveness is not about pardoning a sin that someone committed against you. It’s about recognizing that what you thought happened never really occurred because the “sin” was an illusion. When you truly forgive, you see past the body and the ego to the eternal innocence of the other person, who is a Child of God just like you. Forgiveness is a “selective remembering” of only the loving thoughts.

What is ‘healing’ in this vision? When you truly practice forgiveness in your relationships, you begin to see the world differently. This is called the forgiven world and it is a world where everything has been forgiven and there are no fantasies to hide the truth. This is not a hallucination, but the real world, bright and clean and new, because you have let go of all the past judgments you’ve projected onto it.

Booklet for Forgiveness & Healing “The KISS”

We came up with a booklet to support new insights and inspiration. To let your mind be redirected in relationships. To become aware of your tendencies in relationships. To be invited to healing of the tendency to separate and fragmentize in relationships. Take a look at the sample pages of this booklet.