In spiritual living there is no dependence upon any person or thing: There is a sharing, but there is never dependence. Whatever is shared with another is shared from the infinite bounty of God:

“I and my Father are one”: That is my relationship to God, and that is God’s relationship to me. It has nothing to do with any person: It has nothing to do with relatives, friends, or associates. My good is in no way dependent on them, nor is their good dependent on me. My good is God’s allness made manifest as my individual being.

The Art of Spiritual Healing,
The Relationship of Oneness
Joel S. goldsmith