"If I can look into your eyes and realize the same Father is looking out there that looks out of my eyes, I have created a bond of Brotherhood with you. If only I can look out at everyone on the street in the shops..  Yes, I did say this to them, don't look too directly in the eye somebody may accuse you of flirting but, take a sneaking little glance into the eyes, so that it's not noticeable and just recognize your Father behind those eyes". 
Joel Goldsmith in Toward Peace tape 357B

Recognition

Visuals for the meeting